You've Done the Therapy. Now What?
When you've asked for change,
tried everything you know how to do,
and you're wondering what comes next.
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Relationship & Divorce Guidance as you navigate life's biggest realtionship decisions with clarity, confidence, and self-trust.
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You don't have to figure this out alone.Â
Former Family Law Attorney • Mediator • Certified Coach • Yoga & Mindfulness Teacher • 20+ Years Guiding Families Through Change
Why My Clients Choose Me:
You don't need to coordinate a therapist, a financial professional, and a family law attorney to navigate one of life's biggest decisions.
Relationship change is emotional. It's financial. It's legal. Most people end up piecing together advice from multiple professionals, trying to figure out how it all fits together.
My approach is different.
As a former family law attorney, relationship coach, and mindfulness practitioner, I integrate the emotional, financial, and legal realities of relationship change into one thoughtful process. Together, we'll make sense of the whole picture, prepare for the conversations ahead, and create a clear path forward.
When specialized legal representation or financial planning is needed, I'll help you identify the right professionals. But throughout the process, you'll have one trusted guide who understands how every decision affects every other part of your life.
The Emotional, Financial & Legal Guidance
You Need All In One Place.
Ways We Can Work Together
For Individuals:
Relationship & Divorce Guidance
Integrated emotional, financial, and legal guidance through every stage of relationship change.
Whether you're questioning your relationship, considering separation, preparing for divorce, or rebuilding afterward, you'll have one trusted guide to help you navigate the emotional, financial, and legal realities of the journey
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For Couples:
Integrative Divorce Mediation
When both partners are ready to move forward, mediation offers a respectful and collaborative alternative to litigation.
Together we'll create practical agreements while supporting healthy communication and thoughtful decision-making throughout the process.
How I will help you Move Forward:
Emotional
Strength
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When you're overwhelmed, it's almost impossible to know what to do next. Before you can make clear decisions, you need to calm the noise, reconnect with yourself, and trust your own judgment again. That's where our work begins.
Together we'll..
Build self-trust
Regulate stress
Make confident decisions
Set healthy boundaries
Improve communication
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Financial
Confidence
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Financial uncertainty can make every decision feel riskier. I'll help you understand the financial implications of your choices, organize important information, and create a plan so you can move forward with confidence.
Together we'll...
Create a realistic budget
Understand the financial impact of your decisions
Organize financial information and documents
Prepare financial affidavits and other required paperwork
Develop a plan for your financial future
Build greater financial confidence and security
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Legal
Understanding
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Understanding the legal process shouldn't require a law degree. Drawing on my experience as a former family law attorney, I'll help you understand your options, prepare for important conversations, and navigate each step with confidence.
Together we'll...
Understand the divorce process and your options
Prepare for mediation and settlement discussions
Create comprehensive parenting plans
Prepare financial affidavits and other court documents
Choose the right attorney and other professionals
Communicate effectively with legal professionals
Reduce unnecessary conflict, time, and legal costs
One Guide. Three Essential Areas of Expertise.
Thea Bourke Martin, JD E-YRT
Major relationship decisions are never just emotional. They're emotional. They're financial. They're legal.
Most people end up trying to navigate all three by hiring separate professionals—a therapist, an attorney, and a financial advisor—hoping someone will help them make sense of it all.
That's where I come in.
As a former family law attorney with more than two decades of experience helping families navigate relationship transitions, I combine legal insight, financial guidance, coaching, and mindfulness into one integrated approach.
That means we can work through the emotional uncertainty, organize the financial decisions ahead of you, and prepare you to navigate the legal process with confidence. All within one thoughtful, coordinated approach.
When specialized legal representation or financial planning is needed, I'll help you identify the right professionals. But throughout the process, you'll have one trusted guide who understands how each decision affects every other part of your life.
Because divorce isn't just a legal process.
It isn't just an emotional journey.
It isn't just a financial transition.
It's all three.
And your support should be, too.
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"I wish I had access to this program earlier."
— Recently Divorced Client
 "Thea has a unique set of knowledge and abilities to guide you through the divorce process while helping you maintain your humanity."
— Divorce Coaching Client
"It really gave me strength to know I am not alone and that I am not the villain I had been made out to be. I felt like I found my voice again."
— Mother of Two
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